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September 5, 2023 NANS Dare DSS, Says Protests Will Hold

NANS Dare DSS, Says Protests Will Hold

The National Association of Nigerian Students has warned the Department of State Services not to interfere in planned protests by students, as their rights to protest was a fundamental human right.

The National Public Relations Officer of the union, Giwa Temitope, was reacting to the statement made by DSS that some politicians were mobilizing student leaders for violent protest against the Federal Government over socio-economic issues.

The DSS had raised alarm over plans by Politicians to mobilize student bodies to stage violent protest on the same day the Presidential Election Petition Tribunal; PEPT, has set aside to deliver judgement.

Intelligence reports have indicated that the plotters include certain politicians who are desperately mobilizing unsuspecting student leaders, ethnic-based associations, youth, and disgruntled groups for the planned action,” the spokesperson for the security agency, Peter Afunanya had stated on Monday.

The NANS PRO, in a statement sent to Journalists, said the student body would be be at the University of Lagos  for the protest and urged the DSS not to infringe on the rights of students.

, “It is quite embarrassing that the DSS has derailed to become the propaganda arm of the Federal Government, thereby, raising false alarms and even interfering in affairs that do not in any way relate to their line of profession.

“As an association, we maintain that we are not satisfied with how the Nigerian society is being run, most especially, as regards arbitrary fee increment across our tertiary institutions, with the University of Lagos being a model.” Giwa said

NANS said the failure of the UNILAG management to honour the agreement reached at the meeting with student leaders on August 2, “forced the student body to fix a date of action at the university for September 6 and the protest will hold till the management reverses the hike.

The UNILAG management in July 2023, increased fees from N19,000 to N190,250, for students studying medicine, while for courses that require laboratory and studio, the students were to pay N140,250.

 

September 4, 2023 The Pitfalls of Living for Others: Rediscovering Your Authentic Self

The Pitfalls of Living for Others: Rediscovering Your Authentic Self

By Maris “Damaris” Iloka

In a world fueled by external validation and social media’s ever-watchful eye, the pressure to conform to societal expectations and seek approval from others can be overwhelming. Many of us have found ourselves caught in the trap of living our lives based on what people will say or think about us.
Examining the drawbacks of living solely for the approval of others reveals a spectrum of detrimental effects that touch various facets of one’s life, regardless of social class or background. These consequences are universal and impactful:

Firstly, there’s the danger of losing one’s authenticity in the relentless pursuit of validation. Constantly seeking approval blurs the lines between one’s true desires and what they perceive others expect of them.
Secondly, anxiety and stress become constant companions as individuals fear falling short of the expectations placed upon them, exacting a toll on their mental and emotional well-being.

The compulsion to prioritize external validation also results in missed opportunities. Personal growth is stymied, and passions are often left unexplored due to the fear of potential rejection or disapproval.

Lastly, relationships bear the brunt of this behavior, as authenticity gives way to image maintenance. Genuine connections falter, strained by the need to project a certain façade rather than fostering sincere, meaningful bonds. The behavior of living for others is influenced by a variety of factors. One significant contributor is the pervasive influence of social media, where the carefully curated nature of platforms can fuel a constant desire for approval and lead to unhealthy comparisons with others. Additionally, early experiences in childhood, such as seeking approval from parents or peers, can lay the foundation for a lifelong pattern of seeking external validation. These early encounters can establish a precedent that individuals may unwittingly carry with them into adulthood, perpetuating the cycle of living for the approval of others.

It’s essential to consider the role of societal expectations in this equation. Society’s norms and anticipated behaviors can create a compelling force, pressuring individuals to conform to particular standards. For instance, there’s the prevalent societal pressure to host an extravagant wedding that becomes the talk of the town for years, as if it’s a benchmark for garnering respect within one’s social circles. Similarly, societal expectations extend to the type of vehicle one drives, influencing choices in a way that aligns with these established norms.

During the broadcast of the program “Sharing Life Issues, with Damaris” our guest, Aunty Soby, a family wellness consultant, shared her personal journey from her youth. She recounted her time in the choir, where she harbored a strong desire to receive recognition as a talented singer, much like her peers. However, the expected acknowledgment and compliments failed to materialize, leaving her with a sense of unfulfillment. Today, Aunty Soby has gained insight into the importance of self-discovery, emphasizing the significance of understanding one’s identity, particularly as a child of God, and uncovering God’s purpose for one’s life. She extended her encouragement to anyone grappling with the burdensome pursuit of external approval, urging them to embark on a journey of self-discovery as the starting point for liberation.

Breaking free from the cycle of living for others is a profoundly liberating journey that commences with the vital step of rediscovering your authentic self. This transformative process involves several key elements. It begins with self-reflection, a deep dive into your values, passions, and desires, discerning what genuinely holds significance for you. Self-acceptance is next on the path, where you wholeheartedly embrace your unique qualities and imperfections, recognizing that the pursuit of external validation is an endless endeavor. Further down the road, identifying your life’s purpose and establishing personal goals in alignment with your values takes precedence, ensuring that your pursuits are driven by genuine passion rather than a desire to please others. Mindfulness plays a crucial role in maintaining presence and reducing anxiety stemming from the opinions of those around you. Lastly, seeking support is encouraged, as connecting with friends, family, or a therapist can offer valuable guidance and unwavering support as you navigate this empowering journey of self-discovery and liberation.

In conclusion, the drawbacks of living solely for the approval of others are far-reaching and universal, affecting individuals regardless of their social class or background. Living for the approval of others can be a silent and destructive force in one’s life, from the loss of authenticity to the strain on relationships. However, amidst these challenges, there exists a path towards liberation and self-discovery. It is a journey encapsulated by the phrase ‘Breaking Free and Healing.’ Aunty Soby’s story served as a beacon of hope and inspiration for those who tuned in to “Sharing Life Issues.” Her story serves as a poignant reminder that genuine contentment begins with self-discovery and self-acceptance. It’s time to break free from the shackles of external validation and live life on our own terms, knowing that our worth isn’t defined by the opinions of others. Embrace your authentic self, discover your purpose, and start living a life that truly reflects who you are and free from the burden of seeking approval from others.

September 4, 2023 We have Uncovered Plans to Stage Violent Protests in The Country – DSS

We have Uncovered Plans to Stage Violent Protests in The Country – DSS

The Department of State Security; DSS says it has uncovered plans by some elements to stage violent protests across the country. This was contained in a statement made available to Inspiration FM which read;

The Department of State Services (DSS) hereby informs the public that it has uncovered plans by some elements in parts of the country to stage violent protests in order to discredit the Federal Government and security agencies over sundry socio-economic matters. Intelligence reports have indicated that the plotters include certain politicians who are desperately mobilising unsuspecting student leaders, ethnic based associations, youth and disgruntled groups for the planned action. Meanwhile, the Service has identified the ring leaders of the plot as well as sustained monitoring around them in order to deter them from plunging the country into anarchy. In view of this development, University Vice-Chancellors and Heads of Tertiary Institutions are advised to discourage their students from engaging in acts capable of derailing public peace. Also, parents and guardians are enjoined to admonish their children and wards respectively to shun the lure of participating in inimical behaviours or conducts against law and order. While the DSS is aware of Government’s efforts and determination to resolve some of the challenges confronting the nation, it warns those desirous of subverting national security to retrace their steps. This is more so that it will not hesitate to legally come against persons and groups behind the devious plans.

The Statement was signed by the Service’s Public Relations Officer; Peter Afunanya, Ph.D, fsi.

 

September 4, 2023 Asake, OdumoduBlvck, Rema, Burna Others Cart Home Award at the Headies 2023

Asake, OdumoduBlvck, Rema, Burna Others Cart Home Award at the Headies 2023

The 16th Headies Award held on September 3, 2023, in Atlanta Georgia for the second consecutive year.

The Headies has played a very important role in the documentation of the strides recorded in the Nigerian music industry through its award which has now become the biggest prize in Nigerian music and emerging on the African Scene.

Top Winners of the Day included Asake, OdumoduBlvck, Rema, Burnaboy, Ayra Starr amongst others.

BEST RAP SINGLE

Declan Rice’ by ODUMODUBLVCK

BEST MALE VOCAL PERFORMANCE

‘Kpe Paso’ by Wande Coal

BEST ALTERNATIVE SONG

‘Tinko Tinko’ by Obong Jayar

BEST VIDEO DIRECTOR

Calm Down’ by Director K (Rema)

BEST RAP ALBUM

‘Young Preacher‘ by Blaqbonez

LYRICIST ON THE ROLL

Flytalk Only’ by Payper Corleone

PRODUCER OF THE YEAR

‘Abracadabra’by Rexxie

BEST MALE ARTIST

Rema

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

ODUMODUBLVCK

BEST INSPIRATIONAL SONG

‘Eze Ebube’ by Neon Adejo

AFROBEATS SINGLE OF THE YEAR

‘Last Last’ by Burna Boy

SPECIAL RECOGNITION’

Sound Sultan

DIGITAL ARTIST OF THE YEAR

‘Calm Down’ by Rema 

BEST STREET HIP-HOP ARTISTE

‘Chance (Na Ham)’ by Seyi Vibez

NEXT-RATED

Asake

ALBUM OF THE YEAR

 ‘Mr. Money With The Vibe’ by Asake

BEST COLLABORATION

‘Who’s Your Guy Remix’  by Spyro, Tiwa Savage

AFRICAN ARTISTE OF THE YEAR  

Rema (Nigeria)

BEST WEST AFRICAN ARTISTE OF THE YEAR 

Black Sherif (Ghana)

BEST R&B Album

‘The Brother’s Keeper’ by Chike 

INTERNATIONAL ARTISTE OF THE YEAR

Selena Gomez

BEST RECORDING OF THE YEAR

‘Soweto’ by Victony, Tempoe

BEST VOCAL PERFORMANCE (FEMALE)

In Between by Waje

BEST CENTRAL AFRICAN ARTISTE OF THE YEAR

Libianca (Cameroon)

HEADIES VIEWERS’ CHOICE

‘Soweto’ by Victony

BEST EAST AFRICAN ARTISTE OF THE YEAR

Diamond Platinumz (Tanzania)

BEST NORTH AFRICAN ARTISTE OF THE YEAR

El Grande Toto (Morocco)

SONGWRITER OF THE YEAR

‘Loyal’ by Simi Kosoko, Goodsfavour Chidozie, Kosoko Adekunle, Marcel Akunwata

BEST R&B SINGLE

“For my hand’ by Burna Boy 

BEST FEMALE ARTISTE

Ayra Starr

BEST SOUTHERN AFRICAN ARTISTE OF THE YEAR

Focalistic (South Africa)

BEST ALTERNATIVE ALBUM

‘Gbagada Express’ by BOJ 

HALL OF FAME

Youssou N’dour

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